Nature vs. Nurture Debates Over Sexuality
Published October 06, 2008 @ 05:16AM PT
Are people born straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender? It’s a question that often invokes a “that’s above my pay grade” response from many academics, researchers, politicians and the like. But the debate over nature vs. nurture in regards to sexuality and sexual orientation has played an important role in the struggle for civil rights for LGBT people, with science becoming increasingly closer to recognizing that genetics play a significant role in determining one’s sexual orientation.
At its most basic level, the debate over nature vs. nurture concerns whether physical and behavioral traits are determined by an individual’s genetics (nature), or are determined by personal experiences (nurture). The nurture debate harkens back to the Aristotlean concept of tabula rosa, which suggests that personality and behavioral traits are entirely learned. In other words, all individuals start off in this world as blank slates in terms of their personality.
Nature debates over sexuality center around a person’s sexual orientation being decided by heredity and genes. As the American Psychological Association has noted, “Research suggests that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle, possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population, a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the different moral values and standards of a particular culture.” Studies conducted on the subject of homosexuality have focused on a range of possible genetic factors to link biological and hormonal factors to sexual orientation, from the size of one’s finger lengths, to fraternal birth order, to the number of ridges on one’s fingertips, to under-exposure (for gay men) or over-exposure (for lesbians) of prenatal androgens, among many others.
Some of the most cited studies have been conducted on twins – both those that were raised in the same household, and those who were separated at birth and raised in different families. Among both populations, researchers have found ample evidence to suggest a biological connection to homosexuality, particularly among identical twins separated at birth. In these cases, when one identical twin identified as gay, the other identical twin also identified as gay more than 50 percent of the time – despite being raised in a completely separate environment.
These studies, for the most part, have applied exclusively to gay men and not lesbians. However, subsequent research comparing brain shapes has linked lesbians and heterosexual men, as well as gay men and heterosexual women, adding yet another study to support a “nature” argument for homosexuality.
Nurture proponents, which have typically included populations that view homosexuality as aberrant or sinful (though not always), have rejected any sole biological influence for homosexuality, and suggest that one’s sexual orientation is an individual choice and/or is caused by environmental factors dictated after birth. Reasons given by nurture proponents for homosexuality have been as varied as estranged relationships between gay children and their parents, to allowing male children to play with dolls, to not forming healthy same-sex bonds with peers as a toddler, to sexual abuse at a young age, to name a few. Nurture proponents often see sexuality as something that can be changed, altered or suppressed, which has led to a number of gay rehabilitation programs. These programs, mostly run by religious organizations, paint same-sex attractions as unwanted and often suggest that individuals can control their sexuality through prayer or biblical resolution. Science, to a large extent, has debunked most ex-gay therapy programs and has noted the devastating tolls these programs take on LGBT individuals.
Many others believe that homosexuality is caused by a combination of biological, hormonal and environmental factors, merging the nature vs. nurture debate into one argument. Others believe in a sexuality scale, like the one championed by Alfred Kinsey, that suggest a person’s sexual history or sexual identity may fluctuate along a continuum between exclusively homosexual and exclusively heterosexual, and can be influenced by both environmental and biological factors.
Increasingly, however, the nature side of the debate is winning out in scientific circles. But as scientific evidence points more and more toward a biological or hormonal cause for homosexuality, concern over efforts to “cure” any biological or hormonal cause of homosexuality have surfaced. In his article, “Sexual Reorientation: The Gay Culture War is About to Turn Chemical,” William Saletan notes that with increasing scientific evidence that sexual orientation develops before birth, many who were once in the nurture camp are condoning efforts to find ways to alter the genetic, hormonal and biological factors that might determine one’s sexuality.
Saletan quotes Rev. Albert Mohler Jr., President of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, who says, “If a biological basis is found [for homosexuality], and if a prenatal test is then developed, and if a successful treatment to reverse the sexual orientation to heterosexual is ever developed, we would support its use.” Saletan also quotes Rev. Joseph Fessio, editor of Ignatius Press (Pope Benedict XVI’s English publisher), who says that because homosexuality is seen as a disorder within the Catholic Church, the Church would look favorably upon efforts to modify any neurobiological factor that results in homosexuality.
In the short-term, however, increasing scientific evidence supporting a nature argument for homosexuality has helped redirect the debate over whether one’s sexuality is a lifestyle choice or a personal orientation. This paradigm shift, according to researchers, could have a major impact in combating negative perceptions of homosexuality. What remains to be seen, however, is whether the neurobiological explanations for homosexuality will lead to opponents pushing for ways to use science to overturn one’s sexuality. And that could have massive, and very dangerous, ramifications for children and LGBT people.
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Interesting article. Presenting both sides of the discussion in a non-threatening way. Closing the discussion with an attempt to suggest nature is the right choice for determining the locus of homosexual behavior is interesting. Using carefully worded discussion points with modifiers like -- could have, for the most part, and the like -- is an interesting method of stating a point without having hard data to base findings upon. Come back when you have conclusive evidence homosexuality is based on genetic wiring. Supposition is just belief without foundation.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 10/18/2008 @ 09:00AM PT
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No.
Posted by David Lafleche on 10/18/2008 @ 03:50PM PT
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The thing that scares me is this idea of "curing" someone of homosexuality if it's conclusively proven to be genetic. It's just sad.
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 10/22/2008 @ 09:17PM PT
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You can look at this from either side and there is only one answer. God does NOT make "mistakes". To change God's decision to have someone be gay or whatever would be a sin. To not accept these people would also be a sin according to the bible. Every church says God is right, well practice what you preach. How dare you say you would accept a "change" to "correct" this, God's decision. You all think about it. God may gay animals,fish, mammals. The only thing we haven't proven yet is gay plant life. God DOESNOT make mistakes. Concider this a test of his statement,"Judge not lest ye be judged". What, did you think He would make everything easy for you religious people just because you have the problem and God doesn't?
Posted by sandy valencour on 10/29/2008 @ 03:22AM PT
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sandy, What in the wide world of sports are you talking about? I have read your post several times, and must report to you I come away more bewildered each time.
Surely you are not suggesting God makes homosexuals? How could you be so confused? I am not a student of God's Word to the degree I should be; I do try but the demands of work and school are heavy on me. But, I do know enough to know you are so very, very mistaken about our God.
Homosexuality is a lifestyle choice, there is no conclusive proof of a Homosexual gene, just speculation by biased researchers. Every time a researcher comes out and claims it, another researcher cannot replicate their findings. Have cheer, they never intend to quit trying. They will just never find it.
I never judge a person, I recognize behavior, and when it is unrepentant evil, I let it go and move on. I did that with just the other day with another thread. It was of no value to try to discuss with hatred spewing at me. I just leave. God only requires I speak the truth as He has shown it to me, then He requires me to get out of the way and let Him be in charge. So, you see, my friend, I do not feel anger and frustration. I pass the word and let God have the wheel.
You are right about one thing, and I would be dishonest to not agree, God does not make mistakes. Now, He does allow free will, so if you choose to head off in some direction of your own choosing -- my friend, He will let you do so. You might want to consider the implications of what you say. Your own words can become your worst nightmare. If, as you say, and I agree, God does not make mistakes, why are we killing the children He has given us? Did He err by making one of us (humans) inadvertantly? So, we must conclude He erred and we should kill His mistake? Hummm', don't think so. You might want to put that argument back under your seat. It is not so good.
Lisa, people can choose to stop errant behavior, and be, your word, 'cured' and it is not a bad thing. I want to believe people can overcome any destructive behavior they would choose to want to overcome. Only if you fall under the spell of the Evil One can you come to believe homosexuality is not a behavior choice.
Have a good and Godly day.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 10/29/2008 @ 08:24PM PT
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I'm so sick of you bible thumpers using the bible as an excuse for your own stupidity! NO ONE would choose to be gay! JERRY FALWELL WAS WRONG! I challenge anyone who says being gay to be a choice to pinpoint the exact moment they " decided" to be straight. If they're being honest, they'll realize it's something they always just knew, not something they had been told, or taught. To think any differently is to just be deluding yourself!
Posted by gilbert barrett on 03/28/2009 @ 12:19PM PT
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Kenneth, my point was that it is sad that people think they can "cure" others of behaviors or genetics. My point was to live & let live, not to focus energy on correcting other people.
I was commenting specifically on the last line of the entry:
"What remains to be seen, however, is whether the neurobiological explanations for homosexuality will lead to opponents pushing for ways to use science to overturn one’s sexuality. And that could have massive, and very dangerous, ramifications for children and LGBT people."
I agree: that this could have very serious ramifications for everyone involved - and if people try to "cure" LGBT people, then who's next? I shudder to think where the line is drawn.
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 10/30/2008 @ 08:12AM PT
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Ok Lisa, behaviors should be left alone. Are you so sure you want to head down this trail?
We use science all the time, and btw -- I am not an advocate, to modify behaviors. And we have no conclusive proof of sexuality being 'located' in our neurobiological makeup either. We are settled on using drugs to control behaviors we don't like, such as ADHD being controlled with Ritalin, without regard to the side effects, such as stunted growth, and mental sluggishness. I suggest we stop this foolishness, and spend time knowing the reasons for behavior and offer care and structured environments for overcoming destructive behaviors.
We also must stop the 'flame-on' rhetoric from all sides. Homosexuality can be overcome, so many have mandged it, but drugs won't manage it.
There is obviously no line drawn, anywhere.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 10/30/2008 @ 11:46AM PT
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" Homosexuality can be overcome, so many have mandged it, but drugs won't manage it."
This is what I think is sad. Why can't people just be who they are? Why does homosexuality have to be "managed"?
Who do we "manage" next? Or rather I should be asking: Who DOESN'T need to be managed?
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 10/30/2008 @ 02:09PM PT
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Lisa, look from the other side; now, not trying to get you to change your beliefs, just look at this dispassionatly from another angle -- perhaps it is, "WHO does not need management?"
From this perspective the clear response is, "we all do." And, normally, we manage ourselves. Sometimes we are lucky enough to have a wife or husband to help us, but sometimes we have to go it alone -- mostly. So, why should a person practicing the Homosexual lifestyle be a bit different. The fact is many manage themselves through celebate living, but the better way would be to find a group of recovering former Homosexuals and get help. It is entirely possible to recover, and live a good and full life as our God intended.
When I hear someone say let me be who I am, I want to remind them who they are supposed to be. If you are born with the body, and features of a male of the species, then that is who you are. If the converse is true, one is born a female, then that is who you are. Don't get trapped by jingoistic chatter about Homosexual genes, and all that nonsense. Be who God made you, and if you have fallen prey to the Homosexual lifestyle proponents, be assured it is possible to recover.
Good day.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 10/30/2008 @ 05:18PM PT
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Being what or who one is, is not always something chosen. There is a biological basis to gender identification. Our brains are wired in particular ways. Its the reason little girls talk to their dolls (because females tend to have better communication skills because of a larger corpus collusum-the part that links the logical side of the brain to the verbal side) and why little boys play with cars and blocks (because males tend to have stronger wiring in the spatial recognition department of the brain). When a little boy starts playing with his sister's dolls in secret after being admonished by his father for not playing with the "boy" toys, he has already shown a predisposition to have the mental wiring similar to the opposite sex. Research has shown that male homosexuals tend to have a larger corpus collosum (the main link between the two brain hemispheres) than most men, and that homosexual women tend to have smaller ones than most women. Although most research focuses on gay men, so there is LESS proportional evidence for women.
Whether these behaviors are repressed does not make them go away. For the same reason that I must gaurd against depression because of my mental wiring (it has been to be genetic and there is a strong family history for me), someone who chooses to repress this part of their being for social reasons must also constantly gaurd against it. It is still a part of them. There is no being "ex-gay" any more than i can say i've been "cured" of depression.
Whether people choose to repress this part of themselves for social, or personal, or religious reasons should be just that: a choice; and that choice should not be dictated for them.
Posted by Erin Ferguson on 11/07/2008 @ 10:16AM PT
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Erin, I like science, however psuedo-science is a little hard to take. Please cite specific sources of studies conducted as foundation for the claims you make. I have heard much of this "it is thought" kind of talk before. Just saying brains are wired differently is nice, but where is finding for this claim. I can claim that men have different wiring in their brains for behaviors I want to color as support for a contention I support. Is not of value until we can show factual unbiased studies supporting such beliefs -- otherwise it is urban legend or better "old wives tales."
There are many individuals who were formerly engaged in homosexual behaviors. Not sure I would use the word cured due to the medical conotation. It might be better to think of changed behavior as a way to express the accomplishment. When one learns a behavior, one can change it given a desire and time.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 11/08/2008 @ 11:00AM PT
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Kenneth,
Do tell, why do you believe scientific inquiry is completely negligible as proof for homosexual behavior, yet, God, perhaps the most amorphous concept known to man, serves as utterly conclusive evidence. God is just as speculative as science.
Posted by Joseph Saravo on 11/09/2008 @ 06:43PM PT
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Saying someone is "cured" of homosexual behavior is about as absurd as saying someone is "cured" of alcoholism or anorexia. Perhaps to some, it seems these people are "choosing" to drink or to stop eating when in fact it is so deeply ingrained in them that they cannot control the urges that make them drink or starve themselves. Being "cured" of homosexuality, would then just be repressing one's natural behaviors.
And who cares who someone else falls in love with? Seriously, what does it have to do with you personally?
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 11/09/2008 @ 08:26PM PT
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"Be who God made you"
If I have choosen anything, it has been to be who God made me. Please, read the admirable argument presented by Rev. Mel White regarding the (mis)use of the Scriptures to define God's position on "homosexuality."
http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian
I challenge you to deconstruct the Reverand's case. Yes, the Reverand is gay and brings with his discussion a bias. But, you too bring your own bias in your definition of who God made me to be. Everyone has biases, but that is no reason to throw out an argument entirely.
Posted by Joseph Saravo on 11/09/2008 @ 10:26PM PT
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Joseph, you can be who you want to be. I make no choices for you, just make a wide pathway around the psuedo-science. I do not accept the argument that God or some supreme universal power or the other made you homosexual. It is an twisting of science to try to use it to prove your behaviors are somehow genetically imprinted. I ain't buying.
Lisa, are you positing a theory that homosexuality is a disease. Alcoholism is a disease, as is anoxeria. They can be managed with treatment. Homosexuality is a behavior, I do not claim it a disease. It certainly leads to diseases, as it is corrupt biologically.
Joseph, I am sorry, but I choose to pass on Mel White. He has nothing to say I want to hear. Sorry, you cannot engage me in a discussion using corrupt theological writings. I could raise the Bible, which I believe is a statement of my God's will, intention, and desire for us all. But you are not interested in His Bible, are you? If you are, may I suggest you start by reading the basic foundational books (this would be the first five books of what we refer to as the Old Testament).
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 11/10/2008 @ 06:40PM PT
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Kenneth, I suggest YOU read the first few books of the old testament. In there, you'll find that eating shellfish is considered an abomination! It also gives permission for slavery, and it also says that if a woman gets married, and is found not to be a virgin, she is to be sent back to her father's house, and stoned to death. Whenb was the last time you tried that one? it's interesting to me that you might know some of the words, you just don't know what they mean!
Posted by gilbert barrett on 03/28/2009 @ 12:24PM PT
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How are we to have a debate if the other side will not hear our argument? I hear your argument loud and clear—"His" Bible says homosexuality is wrong. Please, I simply want you to consider "His" Bible in the context of place and time. To consider how "His" Bible has been appropriated by humanity and in this appropriation it has been translated, interpreted, and understood in different ways at different times. I encourage you interrogate a fundamentalist interpretation of Scripture as there is an argument that these writings may not reflect the original text.
Also, i'm actually quite fascinated by the Bible. I'm an art historian. I deal with Biblical stories on nearly a daily basis. So, i'm familiar with those books we refer to as the Old Testament. I even know a bit about those other folks that come after it.
Posted by Joseph Saravo on 11/10/2008 @ 09:39PM PT
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I don't believe I said anything in regard to homosexuality being a "disease". I was making a comparison to other "behaviors" that have no "cure" or that require the person to acknowledge that what they're doing is destructive. Since homosexuality doesn't hurt anyone any more than heterosexuality, why then is it so important for other people to want it to be "cured" out of others?
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 11/10/2008 @ 11:02PM PT
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I first learned of these studies in Bio-psychology class, the material of which i cannot post online. However, here is one example of a vetted publisher and the findings i previously mentioned on homosexual brains resembling that of the opposite sex:
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/06/080617151845.htm
and another study from Queen Mary University of London showing both genetic and evironmental factors playing a role in the developement of homosexuality: http://esciencenews.com/articles/2008/06/28/homosexual.behavior.due.genetics.and.environmental.factors
And a collaborative study on brain reactions to pheromones as differing between straight and homosexual reactions: http://sexualhealth.e-healthsource.com/?p=news1&id=525660
And another from the Neuroendocrinology Letters showing clear differences in brain structures: http://www.highbeam.com/doc/1G1-11315232.html
There are even more articles that i could not access because many article wearhouses require subscriptions.
I find it interesting how quickly you are willing to dismiss scientific findings as "psuedo-science". What's the point of arguing anything with someone who refuses to acknowlege the other side of the argument? And so far as "'it is thought' talk": that's what science is. It is meant to question things until concrete cause and effect can be found, though for many things results still relly upon corollation and not causation. Still it is a far more concrete way to create governance than something that has absolutely no proof: god
Posted by Erin Ferguson on 11/11/2008 @ 10:30AM PT
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I think both sides of this argument are troubling. Kenneth is right that there is no conclusive proof that homosexuality has a "biological" cause. But I might ask where there is conclusive proof of a heterosexual gene? And he is also right in pointing out the problematic argument of our brains being "wired" differently in order to support a gender binary. But here I ask why then use another biologically-based argument (that of our male/female bodies or "features") to claim that we are born into a certain role? I simply argue against any essentialist viewpoint of gender and sexuality, and especially ones that confuse gender with sexuality.What we need to bring to these discussions is an understanding that all of our points of view are shaped by and through the times in which we live. Less than 150 years ago there was no such person as a "homosexual" (and concordantly, "heterosexual")- it was a behavior, one that has been found throughout history. The point is, sexual identity is constructed, just as gender is constructed, in order to fit the needs of certain power structures. In reality, there is much more fluidity between the current binaries of straight/gay, male/female, then our current discourse allows.
The only reason why gay activists want so wholeheartedly to believe in a biological cause is because we've been led to believe that this will prove we are "natural," without ever have been given proof of the naturalness of "straight." It is simply a default, a given.
The real question is, how do we define "natural?" Who gets to define it? The government? The patriarchal structures of white male society? Animals? The church? Western cultures?
These are the questions we should be asking. Not, why am I the way I am? But, why is it necessary to substantiate this at all?
Posted by G T on 11/19/2008 @ 07:42PM PT
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G.T., I would suggest to you that you go to the National geographic website, put in the word homosexuality, and see just how many species of animals there are who are homosexual. Do you think they were recruited? Do you think they " Chose" to be that way? If an animals insticts are just that, how do you explain that aspect?
Posted by gilbert barrett on 03/28/2009 @ 12:28PM PT
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know what? I love my friends no matter what or who they are. I don't need "proof" as to why they identify their sexuality as one thing or another. I just need "proof" that they love me back.
I like this idea that GT brings up about why do we need to substantiate anything?? Prove that heterosexuality is hardwired and then maybe there can be a discussion about homosexuality NOT being "normal".
What really bothers me is the people who live in denial - marrying and continuing a masquerade their entire lives, never being happy with who they are. I know someone like this, her whole life denying her true self, and she is the most miserable person I've ever seen. If "love" & "acceptance" were enough no one would ever feel the need to hide.
Will we ever have a society that just accepts everyone as "normal"??
Until then, my friends are who they are and I love them no matter.
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 11/20/2008 @ 05:27PM PT
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two words for you two, GT and Lisa: Right On. :-)
Posted by Erin Ferguson on 12/06/2008 @ 08:04PM PT
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Lisa,
I rather doubt we shall define everyone as normal. I am sure there are members of the Man-Boy Love Organization that would want to have themselves declared "normal." I am not willing to do so, regardless of the amount of effort they might make to show it is considered "normal" elsewhere.
In like manner, I do not accept the claim that somehow it is "normal" for two men to practice sodomy. Not to be graphic without need, it is not "normal" to want to force a part of ones sexual anatomy into an orifice designed for excrement. It is a horrid aberration of the physiology of our human form. Can't change an anus into some sort of vaginal orifice regardless of desire to have it so operate. Sorry if this offends us in polite discussion, but the fact is homosexuality is an aberrant behavior.
And, with that .. I am out of here to return to work.
Posted by Kenneth Wallin on 12/07/2008 @ 10:18AM PT
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"Sorry if this offends us in polite discussion, but the fact is homosexuality is an aberrant behavior."
Here's a question, though, can you prove that every single homosexual partnership practices anal sex?
Perhaps it's not homosexuality, then, that's the problem for some people, but anal sex itself.
Posted by Lisa Smolen on 12/07/2008 @ 03:34PM PT
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The nature vs nurture debate is a misnomer in the first place. It came from the idea that we're such a percent nature and such a percent nurture. That's not what it's about at all. Nature vs nurture is just a way scientists measure the proportion of a SAMPLE, not an individual, having an inherited trait. Which says something about us trying to turn it upon the individual. In fact, when you do that, it becomes nothing more than a generalization and actually misses the individual altogether.
Anyway, it's the same old argument: humans were born to marry the opposite sex, black people were born for slavery, animals were born to be eaten, women were born to do the dishes. Utter rubbish, but it goes on and on and on. Nature is inevitably an argument for every last sort of oppression perpetrated by nature. It's completely irrelevant; it's like calling upon God, except we just call God Nature this time. Everything in nature is natural, but that doesn't say anything about whether or not it is morally supportable. But IF something is natural, the question is not about some man-made figure in the sky... it's a question of the Nature of that being. We can violate nature, do her a violence, by tearing harmony (homeostasis for the science nerds) away from her... It's not a harmony written in a book or even in our genes... it's written in our very lives. And since there's neither proof in our lives nor in society that gay marriage is disharmonious - i.e. harmful - to any living being, the notion that it violates nature is absurd.
Posted by Luella - on 12/07/2008 @ 11:46PM PT
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And, just for the hell of it, I will add that since God is the source of the universe, God is just like Nature here... God IS the universe (seriously, since everyone, religious or not, refers to Nature as if Nature were God, then if Nature is our Creator, and we are part of Nature, then aren't we divine?), so arguing that God said such and such also is completely irrelevant to whether or not something is morally supportable as an ideal. Those who take the universe for what it is, Nature for what Nature is, God for what God is, and humans for what humans are - who accept the universe - they would say that only by first doing this can we arrive at the ideal. Only when we cease to violate Nature do we reach Nature's ideal. So don't take it lightly! Seek out in earnest the answer to Nature's question when she asks you how to revere her and respect all her creatures to the greatest extent possible because they ARE her. Till you do that, have fun worshipping your own puny fragment of Nature's whole.
Posted by Luella - on 12/07/2008 @ 11:57PM PT
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Kenneth, I think it is pretty ignorant to tie the "normalness" or "naturalness" of being gay strictly to your thoughts on anal sex. Surveys show that 20-25% of heterosexual couples engage in anal sex. Are all of them also not normal? It seems like you're taking a personal viewpoint and using that to define what is normal for everyone.
Posted by John Goldsmith on 12/08/2008 @ 02:05AM PT
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The greatest mistake is to consider homosexuality as
"sexual orientation." It is not that. It is an obsessive/compulsive/addictive disorder from which one can recover in the same ways as one can recover from other obsessive/compulsive/addictive disorders.
This has been clearly demonstrated by HA and this refutes the "nature" or "genetic" argument, which was also advanced by alcoholics at one time.
http://www.ha-fs.org/
The problem is that many homosexuals, like alcoholics and other addicts, don't want to be cured.
Posted by George Hill on 12/30/2008 @ 05:55AM PT
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George, I've heard some ridiculous aguements on the bigoted side, but you take the cake! Exactly what is ha, anyway-Haters anonymous? That is clearly the most flawed reasoning I've ever hear. Do you make this up yourself, or do you have help?
Posted by gilbert barrett on 03/28/2009 @ 12:34PM PT
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How can a person be "addicted" to being attracted to a particular type of person (whether that attraction is homo or hetero-sexual)? Have you ever met someone with a compulsive disorder? It causes them to do things over and over again. If they do not complete this action, something in their head (the obsessive part of OCD) tells them that something bad will happen because they didn't do the action. This does not line up with anything i know of homosexuality.
ANYONE can purposefully correct for a personal leaning. I tend to buy impusively and overspend my money. Its a personality trait that is detrimental to me because it puts me in debt. Therefore i purposefully correct this by budgeting. Anyone who feels that being homosexual is a detriment to themselves can purposefully attempt to right this apparent wrong, but that doesn't make the personality leaning a disorder. Because i'm an impulsive buyer doesn't mean i'm addicted to shopping. and being homosexual doesn't mean the person has a disorder or addiction.
Posted by Erin Ferguson on 01/01/2009 @ 04:32PM PT
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And here I thought we lived in America. I'm not going to attack anyone I'm just going to say it how I live it. Who am I to decide what's natural or un natural? What makes me so special and all knowing that it's my place to sit in judgement of what goes on in the bedrooms of two consenting adults? How am I so informed that I can define what love is for all people? The answer is I'm not, and neither is anyone else.
I'm so tired of so called Christians twisting the words in the Bible to fit their own ideals. Jesus preached a message of love and acceptance yet people are taking that message and using it to spew hate. The only perfect being ever created was Jesus Christ, the stories in the Bible were written by men who were told these stories; they didn't witness it. From there the stories were translated from Koine Greek, to Hebrew and then to the various languages that we have received it in now. Think about how many different versions of the Bible there are off the top of my head I can name 2 NIV, and King James; there are differences in each version. Any idiot can see that unless you have an original copy of the text it it's original language then it's all left up to interpretation. It's funny to me how people accept some things in the Bible at face value and then discard what doesn't suit their ideals at that moment. Literally, it's said that if a daughter disobeys her father she should be put to death or sold into slavery. Slavery is condoned in the Bible, does that make it okay to enslave people? I think this country fought a very serious war based on the abolition of that very institution.
I could go on but I won't because it's pointless, some people will believe whatever makes them most comfortable or best suits their own purposes, and cling to that til death. Rational arguments are wasted on these people, because they feel justified by remaining ignorant. So no matter how many scientists get together and prove that their is a genetic basis for homosexuality, there will always be people who will try with everything in them to prove that there isn't. No matter how many plausible positions, or truths you present to these people regarding the truth of how the Bible addresses homosexuality; some people are going to ignore that and argue that 'God hates Homosexuals' so he couldn't possibly have created them. They will do this because it gives them that sense of rightousness and justification for their hate and fear. Don't waste your time arguing back and forth with these people, just do your part in helping the people you can help, the people who want help and let God deal with the rest and He will.
Posted by Tomeko Campbell on 01/06/2009 @ 04:52PM PT
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God loves every one just how we are... we all sinners, who are we to judge but i don't believe people are born gay... God made a Women and a man but its us who come and change things...and no God does not hate anybody gay not gay He hates the sin, but loves the sinner..
Posted by vanessa sanches on 02/27/2009 @ 09:44AM PT
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It is my personal belief that being gay is a matter of nature. I am sickened at the thought of curing someone of it. Loving a person is the most beautiful thing why take away peoples choice...it would be a world full of lies if we started that...a world of conformity b/c we have a want to not be different and to be like everyone else.
Posted by Candice Lewis on 03/07/2009 @ 12:27AM PT
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It is either biological/hormonal/built in/ and all other "nature" proponents or a mix between them and nurture/environment.
The nature side as well as the persons view of how society views sexuality will ensure if a kid will be straight, he will be even if he is raised by parents who are gay.
"Nurture" is not strong enough to be applied to most or all cases. Perhaps a few but definitely not anywhere near enough to use it as your evidence to outlaw gay marriage/adoption. As long as the parent explains that either way liking boys or girls or both, they will be loved. Its an attraction of love/(sexual and romantic attraction), it will come naturally and it wil just happen.
bible bashers have no evidence to stand on and science has not pinpointed exactly how sexual orientation is decided(if not at different times and different influences have more or less influence.) But what is true is that nature has a big influence and as it is, that is enough to legalize marriage and adoption.
bible bashers(social conservatives) do not separate religion from their politics. That is wrong. Conservatives have a problem. They follow the constitution and "values" and "morals" when it suits them.
If you think jesus will save your pathetic ass just b/c you seem him as your savior, you have something else coming ;)
Your striving for objectivity jew,
Robert
Posted by Robert Victor on 04/17/2009 @ 01:31PM PT
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WHY DO WE HAVE TO FIX PEOPLE OR WHY DO WE EVEN NEED A REASON FOR PEOPLE TO BE WHO THEY ARE? THIS IS AMERICA!!! WE THE PEOPLE WILL CHOOSE WHAT WE WANT TO BE AND WHAT WE DO NOT WANT TO BE. JUST LET IT BE.
Posted by skyler wade on 04/19/2009 @ 01:56PM PT
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