Gay Rights

Hey, Obama, the Time to Repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" is Now

Published October 04, 2009 @ 09:26AM PT

Don't Ask Don't Tell

President Barack Obama's National Security Advisor, Gen. James Jones, made the rounds on the Sunday talkshow circuit this week, and had a chance to clarify the timeline of when the discriminatory military policy known as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" might be repealed. But instead of hitting a homerun with the question, Gen. Jones struck out by answering that Obama's plate is too full to move forward on a repeal right now.

Instead of unequivocally stating that "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" is bad policy, hurts our Armed Forces, and discriminates against gays and lesbians, Gen. Jones answered that "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" will be dealt with "at the right time," and that a repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" will be teed up appropriately. *Yawn* That's not bold leadership; that's preserving the status quo.

To be clear, NOW is the appropriate time to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." More than 13,000 troops have been booted out of the military simply because of their sexuality since this policy took shape in 1993, and the discharges have not stopped under Obama. As of this summer, more than 200 soldiers had been fired under the Obama administration for being gay.

Last week, Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid wrote to Obama asking for guidance on how to move a repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" forward. Reid said that "At a time when we are fighting two wars, I do not believe we can afford to discharge any qualified individual who is willing to serve our country."

He's right. So is the Albany Times Union, which has a fabulous editorial on "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" this morning. They write: "Can a nation still fighting two wars, and perhaps even escalating one of them, afford to reject a change in policy that would strengthen its armed forces?"

The magic word for Barack Obama should be, simply, "NOW." Or better yet, "YESTERDAY." That's the timeframe for eliminating "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." This bullshit about waiting "for the right time" or teeing up a repeal "appropriately" is not only offensive, it feeds into the Glenn Becks and Sean Hannitys of the world who like to hit Obama around like a ping-pong ball for being spineless.

Bold leadership doesn't let politically correct timelines dictate when equal rights are good policy. Bold leadership recognizes that equal rights should have happened yesterday. Come on: if Obama was willing to stick his neck out for Chicago's Olympic bid despite the bad PR hit, he should be willing to stick his neck out on an issue where the majority of the U.S. public agrees with his position -- that "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" has got to go.

(Photo courtesy of theslowlane's photostream on Flickr.)

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  1. Chris Marshall

    Obama is nothing more than another politician, and a democrat mind you. Kennedy did not hand out liberation to African Americans because he wanted too, no... he did so because he HAD too before more riots broke out and a huge conflict, almost another civil war, would have arisen otherwise. Sadly and commonly Obama is no different. Hopefully we wont have to repeat the past violence and desperation of other civil rights groups before we are finally seen as human beings like they were. However, if we must repeat the past then let it be so no more innocent human beings have to face oppression for one more day of their existence in this country.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/04/2009 @ 10:58AM PT

  2. M Arnest

    Great, now the top notched DISCIPLINED military machine has a vulnerability for the number two spot.  Some folks don't understand, it only works one way in the military.  An order is an order and lives count on it.  So does your freedom!

    Speaking of:

    The military showers together.  There will now have to be a third barracks for the stalking "its"

    Oh yah, soldiers should wear rubber gloves and dog tags that state "homosexual" so another soldier doesn't have an increased chance of commuting aides.

    Don't forget, now gay marriages would have to be recognized and surpass state law.  By the way, state law would supersede in this case when the member comes back.

    Gays are already in the military and it is working.  Why disrupt with flaunt it stinker in your face disgust.

    Things are as normal as possible.  So go too far?  Clinton did a good job.  I guess this should be undone now.

    I'm not a phobic, I did serve in the military and was discharged honorably.

    Go ahead Mr. President, the vote loss is waiting for you when you stir this pot.

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/05/2009 @ 03:39AM PT

  3. Thomas McHugh

    Mr. labbe...

    For someone who claims to not be phobic about homosexuals...

    Your entire post is nothing but phobic filled drivel.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/06/2009 @ 06:33PM PT

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  4. M Arnest

    LOL, not hardly.  I'm just relaying a majority view point.

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/07/2009 @ 03:39AM PT

  5. Thomas McHugh

    Mr. labbe...

    Just because the majority of america has their heads up their asses doesnt make them right.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/07/2009 @ 02:59PM PT

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  6. M Arnest

    I hate to see you so defensive.  I expect name calling from the other party not our own.  But Mr. McHugh, the majority is the majority.

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/07/2009 @ 05:09PM PT

  7. Thomas McHugh

    And the majority is still wrong...

    Just as the majority would have still been wrong back in the 1960's when they opposed civil rights for african americans and women.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/08/2009 @ 12:47PM PT

  8. Chris Marshall

    Yo Mr. Football, your majority was against white marrying blacks; did that stop the supreme court? NOPE! Same with segregation and women's suffrage.

    You have just been PWNED.

    Now go and actually read some real legal affairs on civil rights. That is if your brain can handle it. If it might be bound to explode then please have someone film it so we can laugh at what a failure you are as a human being. Peace.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/09/2009 @ 08:24PM PT

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  9. Chris Marshall

    Oh I forgot to mention one more thing. My fiance belongs to the Finnish military, which defeated over 500,000 soviets with only 20,000 men and lost less than 500 with less than 2,000 injured; not to mention the fact that they are far more disciplined, trained, and intelligent than our military on top of the fact that they are sexually secure and mature enough where they don't fire someone because he or she is not a reborn-again heterosexual.

    So that is 0-2 can you go for a three fails in a row. I bet you sure can.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/09/2009 @ 08:30PM PT

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  10. Thomas McHugh

    Your on a roll mr. marshall.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/10/2009 @ 04:13AM PT

  11. M Arnest

    :),

    Are you aware that gays have been in the military forever (just a good guess)?

    As for the Finns,

    "Gay Pride" wasn't around during the war LOL.  Apples and oranges  or faulty slippery slope to discussion, Philosophy 101.  Therefore your branches of discussion are irrelevant nor logical but more emotional conjecture.

    The military is a different entity.  It has a separate judicial system, and lives depend on discipline.  Just the facts, sorry to offend your lifestyle.

    PS. Cognitive research was part of my MA portfolio. Therefore, you are correct in me not reaching my potential.

    I enjoy the discussion.

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/10/2009 @ 04:29AM PT

  12. Thomas McHugh

    Mr. labbe...

    Your right about the military requiring discipline but you are seriously fucked in the head if you truly believe that only heterosexual soldiers have discipline...

    The tailhook scandle that took place awhile back is a good example of the lack of discipline that some heterosexual soldiers possess.

    Im leaving the rest of your drivel for mr. marshall to dismantle...

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/10/2009 @ 05:27AM PT

  13. M Arnest

    Let me share this analogy, there will always be weeds in the yard, but it is undesirable to have them.

     

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/10/2009 @ 09:02AM PT

  14. Chris Marshall

    So you have a MA cognitive research in what? NARTHs or FOTFs pseudo discredited science departments? LOL

    You completely destroyed any argument you brought forth by insinuating that homosexuality is a lifestyle because no medical branch in the US, Canada, Europe, and all other well developed medical organizations for both mental and psychical health call sexual orientation a lifestyle and make very strong stances that homosexuality is not a choice, nor are gay people any different than straight people.

    I should stop here because you are 0-3 but just because you basically do not know anything on this subject, but I think I am going to have a little more fun, completely destroy you, make Thom laugh his ass off, and drink my coffie. ALL AT THE SAME TIME! So sit down, and strap in kitten because its time for another wonderful ride through the science park of your destruction.

    I am a scientist mr Football however I am quite well aware of Phil 101. You just fail in it. I didn't bring up slippery slope I brought up what is happening now. To have slippery slope one has to say that X "will" (will meaning in the future) cause Y. Granted I know there werent many "openly gay" people in our military at the time of WWII, there actually were in Finland.

    You obviously don't know what slippery slope is. Probably because you imply it yourself in your first inflammatory, false logic, and anti-gay bias post about the showering with gays that are open. As if showing with normally open gays, but closeted in the military, will not be good for the straights and a third barracks will have to be created.

    To add insult to the injury, you keep sustaining onto yourself your lack of medical knowledge and your inability to abbreviate "Acquired immunodeficiency syndrome" (AIDS) is even more prudent to proving that although you might have a MA you certainly lack simple medical knowledge of a Bio 106 student.

    AIDS is not a disease. It forms from the gestation of HIV (Human immunodeficiency virus) which infects and destroys helper T-cell CD4 and CD8 leukocytes (while blood cells) that are crucial in the assistance of other white blood cells, including B-Cells, and Macrophages to destroy pathogenic microorganisms and resist future outbreaks. AIDS is not contagious. Any simple college and high school student knows that off the cuff, even if they haven't taken any science since high school. Surprisingly you tout your MA but you do not know this.

    HIV IS the pathogenic microorganism that can cause AIDS, but... Unless there is bodily fluid contact with open wounds, or sex (any sex for both straights and LGBT) contracting it is not easy. In fact even with bodily fluid contact and sex it is not that easy to acquire unless it is prolonged and consistent. Hep C (hepatitis C) is far easier to contract... however the largest population with hep C is straight males not gay males. Perhaps we should make a third barracks for them too eh?

    Next you call LGBT weeds. How is LT and CO linguist, scientist, medics, doctors, pilots, field marshals, etc weeds when they are the best in their field but are LGBT? Many COs have stated that their discharged LGBT soldiers were among the best of the best, and some even begged with review boards not to release and dishonorably discharge such important members under their command. Ouch eh? COs don't do that much for the heterosexual soldiers, so that must say something.

    So I conclude my absolute destruction of your irresponsible, inconsistent, false and bias research on LGBT human beings that you hold yourself so astute for. No medical professional or anyone with a degree in "cognitive research," that is credible, believes what you do because it is vastly contrary to the evidence, reason, logic, and simple ethical principles followed by the science community. You are not even a poor scientist. You are NO scientist by any standards what so ever. So please crawl back into the retched anus of bias you came from or shut up because you only make yourself look more like a fool than you already are. However, I do enjoy destroying you because you are obviously completely oblivious to your own inconsistencies and inadequacies.

    Just as a final laugh to the rest of you guys and gals on here... Is it not sad that this website started with many wonderfully logical, reasonable, ethical, and science minded people, but now... Now this site is becoming corrupted by the filth we try so hard to combat, correct and educate. It just goes to show that people like Mr. "Football" Labbe, Joe "Stupid" Steadman and Thomas "Bumbling" Berg are hell bent on spreading their rechtedly annoying, but often funny to mock rhetoric; all the while stating "we are not (homo)phobics. Got to love religiously indoctrinated hypocrisy: the number one killer of healthy minds, hearts and souls.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/10/2009 @ 04:17PM PT

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  15. Thomas McHugh

    @ Chris Marshall

    Thank you my dear friend for the best laugh Ive had in a long while.

    @ Mr. labbe

    The only weeds in the military...Indeed, even moreso outside the military...Are the ignorant bible thumping homohaters such as yourself that will one day be consumed by your own stupidity...And on that day, as the last of your worthless ilk crumbles into worthless dust...Im gonna be setting with my friends and drinking a toast to your destruction.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/11/2009 @ 01:10AM PT

  16. Chris Marshall

    Dude they are already consumbed by it that why they muble in bullshit at their churches in groups thinking they are talking to a god. LOL

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/11/2009 @ 10:39AM PT

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  17. Chris Marshall

    At least catholics have latin.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/11/2009 @ 10:56AM PT

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  18. Thomas McHugh

    True and I would say that latin is about the only good thing the roman catholic church has...

    That and maybe some hot nuns... :)

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/12/2009 @ 05:39AM PT

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  20. Cherokee Fred Jesus

    I am not gay I am one person in the human race. I do not understand the right that demands that they have the right to judge others and pass laws against a way of life just because it is not their way of life. When will evolution catch up to reality?

    CFJ

    Posted by Cherokee Fred Jesus on 10/04/2009 @ 11:39AM PT

  21. Edwin Bonilla

    The Obama administration is obligated to repeal the intolerant 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' military policy. The statement which James Jones gave is incorrect and a statement which only a coward would give. Although Congress is always loaded with bills, repealing 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' is a very important task, thus Congress and President Obama are obligated to repeal it this year. I give next year as the latest the Obama administration as a reasonable timeline for the repeal.

    Posted by Edwin Bonilla on 10/04/2009 @ 01:54PM PT

  22. Thomas McHugh

    I agree...Obama is taking way too long to do the right thing.

    And you would think that he could take a lot of pressure off of his shoulders by repealing this piece of shit law which would make our military stronger...At least in regards to iraq and afgannistan.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/04/2009 @ 05:06PM PT

  23. L.S. hope

    Sorry to interrupt. Yes, Obama's a liar, swine, bigot, douche- bag................but, would all of you take a look at Obama's,"New Social Contract: It's time to serve America." It's on today's top post. The Constitution was the LGBT community's hope for equality. This,"New Social Contract," will not only employ 250,000 more citizens, but it degrades the integrity of the Constitution, even more. Obama could do a lot of damage with 250,000 more constituents.

    Posted by L.S. hope on 10/04/2009 @ 08:57PM PT

  24. Fred Frankenberg

    Exactly, Obama isn't too busy to schedule a plug for a Chicago Olympics that ultimately failed, but he doesn't have time to address issues as important as human rights violations continuing on home soil under his regime. It's certainly appreciated that he has a lot on his plate, but he may as well use the excuse that the dog ate his homework. He isn't the one who actually DOES the work. He just says make it happen.

    Posted by Fred Frankenberg on 10/05/2009 @ 10:13AM PT

  25. Cherokee Fred Jesus

    To me this denies a segment of our population the Right to free speech guaranteed by our founders. They must lie to sustain their dignity? It is time to end this practice and allow all Americans to be open and not ashamed of their path in life..

    CFJ

    Posted by Cherokee Fred Jesus on 10/05/2009 @ 11:16AM PT

  26. Joe Steadman

    After serving in the United States Air Force and going through advanced survival school training I think the law should be repealed and gays should not be allowed in the military. You have the possibility for close combat operations and the intimate feelings that can be fostered can cause an operation to be compromised. It's not such a big deal for the those who work behind the desk but this policy is dangerous for those who work in the field. I have seen the way torture works and this was a commonly used tactic in getting information.
    This bias runs deep in men who fight for a living and if we have to exclude gays to protect the sanctity of our military and continue to provide security I choose to vote no to gays in the military.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/05/2009 @ 01:43PM PT

  27. Chris Marshall

    Well thank you so very much. I was kicked out of basic training because I would not separate connections with my fiance when I went into basic training and therefore when my computer was stolen by a bigot and turned in to my superior officer I was investigated and discharged for "homosexual conduct." There are many gays and lesbians in our military and they do their job, I did my job, and because of our lives outside the military we are punished for such a simple thing as who we love.

    Your idea of sanctity of the military is a false point. The military is not sacred, it is a secular organization. By implying sanctity you are implying that the military is some sort of religious institution, which it surely is not. I would have you know that there are many religions that support gay people being seen as normal human beings. Past the davidic dogmas there are over 2000 religions who could care less who someone is attracted to and why. The military should be no different.

    On another point; every conflict, every war, every skirmish, battle, and fight, there have been gays fighting in our military, in the closet, and in silence. How is letting them live their lives, have families, have freedom "now" do anything to our country when they too have served prior to DADT? It does not.

    If you have seen the problems of intimacy with people in your unit, what about intimacy between straight males in the military. You know people who form bonds and become best friends, or as I remember what we called each other, "brothers." Intimacy does not just imply sexual attraction. So what about those brotherly bonds? Should those also be discouraged as well? Should trying to form connections with people be as forbidden as being gay because those connections might carry to much emotion behind them. I made many friends in my training, does that mean I felt attracted to them? No. I joined in the military to get a job done, not to find a partner. I joined the military to serve my country.

    This is the same reason why gays and lesbians join the military. To serve our country. So again I restate my position. If gays, lesbians, bisexual and transgenered people have been serving for the past two centuries, which they have been, is it not about time we allow them to live their lives like you live yours. To be treated like the outstandingly dedicated soldiers they are, and to finally serve as the who they are; not as the people, who only a selective few, would like them to be. If you cant handle the reality that gay people are just as normal with just as many problems as people such as yourself, who can be just as dedicated if not more so because they have to completely separate all connection from their families, their children, and their spouses, because of DADT, then maybe we should ban people like you who wish only to cause further divides in the arm forces rather than make it more efficient and cohesive.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/05/2009 @ 08:17PM PT

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  28. Dave Hershey

    And we know just how well torture works. I say eff you, Joe.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/05/2009 @ 09:29PM PT

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  29. Thomas McHugh

    I concur with both mr. marshall and mr. hershey on this.

    Homosexuals are not deviants and theyre no more sex maniacs than us heterosexuals.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/06/2009 @ 06:38PM PT

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  31. Chris Marshall

    Does anyone find it funny that not to long ago people said that integrating black people and women into the military would cause the military problems and upset unit cohesion? Well did it? NOPE! They even used the excuse that because their military is "so superior" that the results of such integrations from other more powerful and well trained militarises didn't matter. I think we can all agree we were wrong then and that we are wrong now.  Excluding gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people from our military while more powerful, well trained militarises out there include us only shows how backwards and asinine we are in our thought processes from the insecurities that some have about their heterosexual orientations.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/05/2009 @ 09:55PM PT

  32. Thomas McHugh

    Yep...

    If anything, the only problem we have with letting women join the military is that every now and then we have some sick heterosexual male wanting to sexually harras them...

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/06/2009 @ 06:40PM PT

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  34. M Arnest

    What's wrong with women in the military.  As long as they have the strength to do the job and are not physically limited, there should be no problem  I mostly saw women doing desk type jobs while I was in.  Some jets still can't accommodate a women because of facilities and lack of free flight strength, but all-in-all, if they can do a job, they should be in the military.  Women in the military play a VERY important role!

    Posted by M Arnest on 10/07/2009 @ 03:37AM PT

  35. Joe Steadman

    I know this post is kind of off topic for this forum but since we opened the topic I would say I have always enjoyed serving with women. Historically in the past when women and children join the battle the battle turns to total inhalation of the people instead of just the men. For that principle, I would keep war to just men and pray that war would never be needed and tyrants and murders would never rule again.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/07/2009 @ 07:17AM PT

  36. Thomas McHugh

    Nothing at all mr. labbe just as theres nothing wrong with allowing homosexuals to serve openly in the military.

    In case you missed my point...

    I was pointing out that while all you homohaters are whining about homosexuals, we still have incidences of assault on women by HETEROSEXUAL SOLDIERS/OFFICERS.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/07/2009 @ 03:03PM PT

  37. Thomas McHugh

    Mr. steadman...

    Your welcome to continue living in your fantasy world but let me live in reality.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/07/2009 @ 03:05PM PT

  38. Chris Marshall

    Thomas, Reality to the like of steadman is as toxic as sunlight to a vampire. It's such a shame they dont fry when you throw them into reality.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/09/2009 @ 08:19PM PT

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  39. Thomas McHugh

    True...

    We can always stake them though...

    Cant we ?

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/10/2009 @ 04:16AM PT

  40. Chris Marshall

    We could but i dont like getting or want filthy blood and ashes to get on my new jacket. Silver bullets from a scoped M4-S work so much nicer. LOL

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/10/2009 @ 04:19PM PT

  41. Thomas McHugh

    True...And its more fun to see just how many you can hit before they scurry back under their slimy rocks.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/11/2009 @ 01:13AM PT

  42. Chris Marshall

    That is why we have automatics Thomas LOL

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/11/2009 @ 10:57AM PT

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  43. Thomas McHugh

    True but Im still a lousy shot when rushed. :P

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/12/2009 @ 05:37AM PT

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  45. Joe Steadman

    I was just reading the post from Chris Marshall about his military career ending because of something on his computer and know they are very strict about porn. Porn is one of the most addictive and destructive forces that tear at the threads of our families and hate to see anyone fall into that trap. The sanctity in the military I was referring to had more to do with the institution of marriage and protecting the family unit within the military then the organization itself. In my original post I was portraying an observation of what I saw during my career and remember when Pres. Clinton passed the don't ask, don't tell rule which became policy in the 90's. Before this policy it was strictly forbidden for gays to be in the military in any form so this rule was a great achievement for those who would like to serve and keep their sexual preference private instead of having to check that box on the application form.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/07/2009 @ 07:03AM PT

  46. Chris Marshall

    Before I joined the military I formatted my computer. I used it primarily for work study, and communicating to Ruben. I only had one day a week to connect to a LAN line and talk to Ruben. Porn was not an issue because there was none on my computer. I was discharged for "homosexual conduct" because I stayed in communication with my family, which is my fiance.

    As for porn do you even want to go there? My heterosexual counterparts wasted much of their time using their Internet to look at porn and nothing happened to them. Your argument is not only an insult to my family and myself, but it is also a false statement. Also, there is no scientific evidence that agrees with your statement on porn and what it can do to families. In fact it can be quite the opposite for couples that are sexually liberated.

    As for the institution of marriage, only the davidic dogmas and religions that were corrupted by them look down on homosexuality, there are 2000+ religions that don't care about a personals sexual orientation. Another thing to consider is that sexual preference and orientation are two very separate things.

    What about protecting the families of gays? Gay families are families too are they not? What about their marriages? I just find it funny that you lack not only compassion, but simple logic and commensense. It is too sad that you prove that military intelegence is as much of an oxymoron, and segregated tolerance.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/07/2009 @ 11:14AM PT

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  47. Joe Steadman

    That's good you didn't have porn so it's unfortunate that you were at the wrong place, at the wrong time, with the wrong lawyer.  I have one family member who is gay and love him very much but protect traditional marriage every chance I get. Gay marriage promotes an incompatible biological configuration that has the potential to decimate the human population by slow and progressive elimination of the family unit and ultimately the family tree. For that matter, I heard a women marry her dog a few weeks back and heard the pastor begging the audience to support her decision? Is polygamy ok where a man can have many wives, where do we draw the line? I promote protection for all men and freedom to choose your own life but protect the widespread institution of marriage to ensure we continue to exist. If you are reading this you can thank your mom and dad so don't forget heterosexuals play an important part. It's Heavenly Fathers plan for us to multiply and I hope you have the opportunity to become a father one day and experience the joy of being a father yourself.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/07/2009 @ 12:06PM PT

  48. Thomas McHugh

    Mr. steadman...

    Considering that your own bible has supported many forms of marriage including polygamy at different times...There aint nothing traditional about marriage.

    As for your claim about bestiality...Lets see a link to that...Ok ?

    Homosexuals are born from heterosexual couplings just as heterosexuals are.

    Your "heavenly father" aint neccessarily the spiritual father of everyone.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/07/2009 @ 03:12PM PT

  49. Chris Marshall

    Ah so Steadman you really are a religious bigot, without an ability to formulate an appropriate and respectful response that is even based in pseudo logic. Thank you for falling into my trap to show your true colors, which are as colorful as black and white.

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/07/2009 @ 06:24PM PT

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  51. L.S. hope

    We're back too this?

     Obama is,"eliminating the family unit," on his own. How many soldiers are going to have to die,(leaving children fatherless/motherless,) before we're going to do something about it? Children growing up without a "family unit," decimates society,(regardless of their parents' gender and sexual orientation.)

      Mr. Steadman, you argument is a wash. How would homosexuals in the military,that sacrifice their lives for our Country, contribute to:"eliminating the family unit?" For you, and the like minded; I would have thought, you'd consider our Military, the perfect place for homosexuals.

    At this point, if I were in the military, I would pretend to be homosexual just to get out.

    Posted by L.S. hope on 10/07/2009 @ 05:44PM PT

  52. Joe Steadman

    This is a very interesting direction you have taken this conversation and given me serious points to consider for this debate. There will always be a need for front line warriors and this idea might give weight to those who could sacrifice without regret.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/08/2009 @ 07:09AM PT

  53. Ioan Lightoller

    Joe, how does marriage equality harm "traditional marriage"? Have you even thought this out? People who are straight are not going to go marry someone of their own sex. And trust me, with 6.5 billion-plus people on the planet, humanity is in no danger of going extinct. So in some cases "Family" is different than you want it to be. It has long been different for some people, not all of them LGBTQ. If anything, LGBTQ people opting to commit themselves to the one they love in a legal ceremony with full rights under the law will only strengthen marriage.

    Posted by Ioan Lightoller on 10/08/2009 @ 09:12PM PT

  54. Joe Steadman

    Hi Loan,

    In my line of business I deal with mortality tables and see the interchange of life and death everyday. From a high level perspective, if life isn't allowed every chance to prosper and promoted with concepts like traditional marriage it will cease to exist in a very short amount of time. This is why the government gives tax credit to have children. Once the government starts passing laws that legalize gay marriage it legitimizes the practice of same sex relationships and promotes a lifestyle that is biologically incapable of bearing children. This is happening right now in Russia and they have even starting giving away prizes to families who have children to keep up with it. It's hard to see but it's kind of like a fire that gets out of control. Once it flashes it's too late to change the course of action and your civilization collapses.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/09/2009 @ 07:21AM PT

  55. Chris Marshall

    Wow you are a pathetic human being. What is really sad is that people like you made the same misguided, ignorant, bigoted, and callous remarks against my ancestors the native americans, then moved on to african americans, then women, and now gays. All the while free thinkers and intellectuals, who could see past logical inconsistencies you are incapible of, did all they can to liberate such people from misguided fools such as yourself. I pity you, your poor puppet. Its too bad the strings of idiocy that bind you to your masters are almost as industructable as diamonds. However, even diamonds can be destroyed. So I await the day to see you tumble down from your pedistal into the "real world."

    Posted by Chris Marshall on 10/09/2009 @ 08:14PM PT

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  57. Dave Hershey

    Um Joe, your analogy to Russia, FAILS! Big time! You chose a VERY bad country to compare the plight of the LGBT community.

    It IS true that the Russian population is decreasing, but that is NOT due to LGBTs in their society. It is all but illegal to be LGBT in Russia. They still detain people for being gay, they still deny the LGBT community to hold pride parades (or any other LGBT events in general,) and the police are instructed to break up ANYTHING LGBT related. (You can read more about Russia and LGBT rights HERE and HERE. As you can CLEARLY see your analogy to our population to Russia's FAILS and falls flat on its @SS!

    However, the population decrease (in Russia) is mainly due to the reduced economic stability and their denying immigrants to migrate to the country. In fact, the former Soviet Union, like most other communist nations provided abortions on demand because the GDP can't support a large populace (you can try taking a women's studies course to learn more about this.) Once the government quit providing these services people couldn't get abortions, but also were not able to support their offspring. Therefore, many within the generation following the collapse of the Soviet Union have either died due to malnutrition or medical necessities not being met because the government no longer provided these medical necessities

    Being a "numbers" guy, perhaps you should take a BASIC biology class. Environments can only sustain a certain amount of growth. Our planet reached its carrying capacity quite some time ago; however our species is still growing on an exponential curve. If humans continue to breed like rabbits we are ALL doomed.

    And lastly, you are correct, the government gives tax breaks to people who have children. BUT it also gives tax breaks to people for simply being "married" whether they breed or not. The government provides a tax break to those who are sterile, and to senior citizens who are no longer able to breed. So I assume that you would also be in favor of preventing those who ARE sterile and too old to breed from marrying, right? Oh you're not? Why not? there is NO INCENTIVE FOR THE GOVERNMENT if they are not going to breed.

    Let me guess, you are not even in favor of civil unions.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/10/2009 @ 06:36PM PT

  58. Thomas McHugh

    Well said mr. hershey.

    I always find it hypocritical that those who base their opposition to equality on the goverment incentive for breeding crap dont want to deny such equality to heterosexuals who cant or wont breed while at the same time, they wanna deny equality to homosexuals under the false assumption that they cant breed.

    Homohaters need to understand that being homosexual doesnt automaticly make you sterile.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/11/2009 @ 01:26AM PT

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  60. Ioan Lightoller

    Joe,

    If you have noticed lately, this country is in no danger of not having enough people to keep it going. Oh, and shock of shocks, even those who are not involved in "traditional marriage" reproduce (gasp!). You would think in an age where so many straight couples are living together without marriage, you would be glad to see couples eager to enter into the legal commitment called "marriage".

    I don't think you need to worry about life, Joe. Life always seems to find a way. I think this is just another one of your pulled-out-of-the-air sophistries to grab at a reason--any reason would seem to be fine with you--to deny LGBTQ people equality. Could it be that you are worried that "the right sort" of people are not going to reproduce? Sounds like it to me. Well you will just have to enjoy inequality whilst it is still around. The rest of us will rejoice once equality and justice triumph--and, Joe, sooner or later, they DO triumph.

    The other gents here are correct--sexual orientation is not a choice. Sorry if you are labouring under outdated assumptions.

     

    Posted by Ioan Lightoller on 10/10/2009 @ 08:20PM PT

  61. Joe Steadman

    So many ideas have been shared over the week and the one thought that keeps coming to mind is no matter the difference of opinion, no matter how much we disagree, I would still stand at the gate and protect you, your ideas and your freedom with my life. This is what serving in the military is all about and I have to ask, would you do the same for me. 

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/11/2009 @ 06:36PM PT

  62. Dave Hershey

    Absolutely I would! The problem is that unless you are actually willing stand up and protect EVERYONE against bigotry and discrimination, everything else is only window dressing and lip service. That is the difference between you and me. I would and regularly DO stand up against bigotry and discrimination of others.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/11/2009 @ 07:24PM PT

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  63. Joe Steadman

    That was great to hear a firm yes on your answer. If we look at the explanation behind the policy you will find that the physical elements of security override the mental reservations in the field and since there is no constitutional right to serve in the armed forces you have your work cut out for you. Here are some points of interest from the policy concerning homosexuality in the armed forces

    (11) The pervasive application of the standards of conduct is necessary because members of the armed forces must be ready at all times for worldwide deployment to a combat environment.
    (12) The worldwide deployment of United States military forces, the international responsibilities of the United States, and the potential for involvement of the armed forces in actual combat routinely make it necessary for members of the armed forces involuntarily to accept living conditions and working conditions that are often spartan, primitive, and characterized by forced intimacy with little or no privacy.
    (13) The prohibition against homosexual conduct is a longstanding element of military law that continues to be necessary in the unique circumstances of military service.
    (14) The armed forces must maintain personnel policies that exclude persons whose presence in the armed forces would create an unacceptable risk to the armed forces' high standards of morale, good order and discipline, and unit cohesion that are the essence of military capability.
    (15) The presence in the armed forces of persons who demonstrate a propensity or intent to engage in homosexual acts would create an unacceptable risk to the high standards of morale, good order and discipline, and unit cohesion that are the essence of military capability.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/11/2009 @ 09:24PM PT

  64. Dave Hershey

    Coming from active Air Force Colonel Om Prakash writes:

    "After a careful examination, there is no scientific evidence to support the claim that unit cohesion will be negatively affected if homosexuals serve openly. Based on this research, it is not time for the administration to reexamine the issue; rather it is time for the administration to examine how to implement the repeal of the ban."

    This statement alone derides your "homosexuals" create and unacceptable risk to the so-called high standards of morale, good order and discipline, an unit cohesion "argument."

    You see there is not only 75% of public support for the repeal of DADT and the fact that a 2006 Zogby poll showed that a random sample of military personnel found that 75% were comfortable with gays and lesbians. In fact a very high majority of them were in favor of its repeal as well.

    in addition to this "unit cohesion and high morale standards" include the raping of female soldiers, and the rape of male soldiers who refuse to hire prostitutes is a part of this "high moral code" that is a part of the armed services.

    Oh and we should be grateful that the standards for military service is so high that we allow prisoners to enter the armed forces to work off their sentence, or that we allow racists and skinheads in, yet still kick out gay Arab linguists and decorated pilots simply because they wouldn't deny - WHEN BEING ASKED - about their sexual orientation.

    Yeah, see you don't like to address the Don't Ask or the Don't Pursue part of the DADT policy. People are being kicked out for NOT telling, but for being HONEST! Which the last time I knew, honesty was a TRULY high moral standard, not lying.

    You also seem to be under the impression that all of those gays and lesbians who are currently serving would come out of the closet, not only come out, but come flying out! THAT would not be the case. Many of them would still be in fear of retribution by their fellow servicemembers, but as the older bigots either leave or die off (whichever comes first) the newer generations entering wouldn't have that fear. As the military catches up with education, tolerance and acceptance, the military would gradually integrate itself.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/11/2009 @ 10:08PM PT

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  65. Dave Hershey

    Oops I forgot something, I have a question for you. Why do you hate our troops? Seriously! Do you really think so litte of our troops professionalism that they can't handle someone in their midst that just one day very well may save their life, or prevent an oncoming attack. Seriously, if you think so little of our servicemembers, then well, I'm at a loss of words.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/11/2009 @ 10:11PM PT

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  66. Thomas McHugh

    I would defend your right to live and believe as you wish as long as you werent hurting others...

    I will not and never will defend any actions on your part to deny equality to any minoritie that doesnt harm society by their sexual orientation or who they love.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/12/2009 @ 05:44AM PT

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  68. Ioan Lightoller

    Dave, I am convinced that no matter what facts show, people like Joe Steadman, Thomas Berg, et al hate us and will never change their minds. It is so sad that people like this think that they have the right to vote on our rights and to keep us out of organisations such as the military.

    Obviously, those like Joe think that every LGBTQ person will act out whenever someone of the same gender is near them. Sad, really.

     

    Posted by Ioan Lightoller on 10/12/2009 @ 12:40AM PT

  69. Dave Hershey

    Sad, indeed. However, earlier someone said they are tired of rebutting these stupid comments. That is part of the problem; most liberals rely on facts and logic, while most "conservatives" (with a few exceptions like William Brown) rely on emotion (and religious) based ideology to justify their hatred and bigotry.

    I don't argue to change their minds. I argue so that they don't win the argument due to our lack of motivation to beat down the false arguments they present. That is the only reason I give them the time of day.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/12/2009 @ 01:20AM PT

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  70. Thomas McHugh

    I agree with you mr. lightoller but on the other hand, if gays cant serve then maybe those bible thumpers can go in their place and with any luck at all get killed which would then make our world a safer place to live in...

    And I agree with mr. hershey...

    While it is indeed tiring having to continue to swat these pesky homohating flies...Better to swat them down now than to give these sex maniacs a chance to breed.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/12/2009 @ 05:49AM PT

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  72. Joe Steadman

    Dave Hershey mentioned statistics about 75% supporting openly gay enlistment and as of February 28, 2009 1,454,515 people are on active duty in the military with an additional 848,000 people in the seven reserve components. That leaves 25% or 575,628 who don't openly support this and with only 214 discharges under the current policy you are going to be hard pressed to find a commander in chief who is willing to trade half a million for 214. It seems to me the policy is pretty fair for everyone who wants to serve.

    Posted by Joe Steadman on 10/12/2009 @ 06:32AM PT

  73. Thomas McHugh

    Give it up steadmen...

    Your pathetic attempts at comming up with intellectual reasons for discrimination are doomed to failure from the get go simply because there is no intellectual reason for discrimination.

    Just fear based on lies and misrepresentation of truth.

    Posted by Thomas McHugh on 10/12/2009 @ 08:05AM PT

  74. Dave Hershey

    Joe, try as you may, you still FAIL!!!!

    To reiterate my point, you are going under the assumption that as soon as the ban is lifted, all of our gay and lesbian servicemembers are not only going to come out of the closet, but come flying out, and start belting out We're Off To See The Wizard, or doing the Can Can. I can assure you that this won't happen.

    Secondly, for someone who is so "pro-military," you sure do seem to think so little of our military that they cannot be professional enough to even act like professionals.

    What it will do, is release some pressure off the shoulders of our gay and lesbian servicemembers knowing that they won't be given the boot if someone finds out. It will stop the witchhunts that are currently taking place.

    Under the current policy, our gay and lesbian servicemembers cannot even carry a picture of their husbands, wives, partners, or whatever their relationship status, in their wallets. They cannot get on their computers and send their loved one an e-mail stating that they are okay, or that they love them because of fear of being booted out. Their spouses and partners can be shafted (this is also true for civilians - through different means) by the military because they have to list their relationship status as single in the military. Meaning, their spouses and partners cannot even make their final arrangements because they are not "next of kin."

    There is an article over on Pam's House Blend that speaks of this very issue. One of the wives (a reservist) just received their orders to go to Iraq and the other will still be here in the states. The one here in the states doesn't trust her wife's parents to do the right thing should anything happen.

    As I stated before, our military is so professional that it allows neo-nazi's, criminals, rapists, and racists in, but god forbid some faggot is going to see your itsy, bitsy, teeny,weeny short little pee pee or all else is going to break loose.

    Believe it or not, but we don't fall all over ourselves trying to get with "straight" guys.

    Posted by Dave Hershey on 10/12/2009 @ 10:14AM PT

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