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Gay Adoption Ban in Florida Challenged

Published November 17, 2008 @ 08:37AM PT

Gay AdoptionBanning gay adoption harms children.

I don't think that sentence can be repeated enough.  The American Psychological Association, the Child Welfare League of America, the National Association of Social Workers, the American Medical Association, the North American Council on Adoptable Children, the American Psychoanalytic Association, the American Academy of Family Physicians and the American Academy of Pediatrics have all said the same thing.

Now, a Miami-Dade Circuit Court judge will decide whether or not to overturn Florida's ban on gay adoption, after hearing arguments in a case involving a North Miami man who wants to adopt two children that he and his 34-year-old partner have been providing foster care to for the past four years.  Child welfare administrators in Florida have fully admitted that the children are thriving in the gay couple's home, but state law prevents gay adoption.

It's time to change Florida's law.

Florida is the only state in the country that outright bans gay adoption. Other states, including Arkansas (which recently passed Proposed Initiative Act 1), ban adoption by unmarried couples, which is a de facto ban on gay adoption.  But Florida is the only state that singles out gays and lesbians specifically in their adoption law.  Meanwhile, they allows felons to adopt and provide foster care.  They allow drug users to adopt and provide foster care.

But not gays and lesbians.  And it hurts children.  Nearly 22,000 Florida children are in state care, and more than 4,000 foster children are eligible for adoption, according to the state Department of Children & Families.  By preventing gays and lesbians from adopting these children, the state is effectively robbing these children of a chance to find a stable and supporting home environment.

Let's hope Judge Cindy Lederman of the Miami-Dade Circuit Court recognizes this.  She's set to rule on Florida's gay adoption ban later this month.  The State seemed to cross the line in bringing in so-called "experts" to testify on why the ban on gay adoption should stand. They used testimony from retired University of South Carolina Professor George A. Rekers, who in addition to supporting a ban on gay adoption, also supports a ban on allowing Native Americans to adopt, because he doesn't approve of their lifestyle and has "research" that shows Native Americans are at a much higher risk of mental illness and substance abuse.

Really?  This is who the state of Florida champions as an expert on child welfare?

As the Miami New Times concludes:

The scientific research on LGBT parenting is far from over, but just about every mainstream study concludes that children raised in same sex households are just as physically and mentally healthy as those raised in opposite sex households. The only difference comes from perception of gender roles, but if you haven't noticed our society in the past few decades has largely rejected traditional gender roles.

So to end this entry just the way it started, banning gay adoption hurts children.  Now it's up to Florida's Courts to recognize the same thing.

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  1. Lynn Morris

    I think this is terrible.  There are so many unwanted children in this world and sometimes to be able to place them in a home where they will receive love and guidance is wonderful.  I am an American educator.  I do not live the gay lifestyle but, I do not pass judgement on others who do.  The world if full of many different people.  The basic need of a child is love and protection.  Many children do not find these needs.  One of my school children related how her father took a knife to her mom. I see children with cigarette burns, liquid burns, cuts.  Many times these children suffer real emotional trauma.  If children are in homes where they are loved and protected they become better citizens and they is what we want in America. 

    Posted by Lynn Morris on 11/18/2008 @ 06:09AM PT

  2. Pedro Camejo

    I pray for the sake of all involved this archaic impediment to same sex adoption gets overturned. The "faith-based" ignorance and fear which has many terrified of allowing same sex partners to adopt is ridiculous. I am so sick of hearing that gays and lesbians will teach their kids that homosexuality is "normal". Really? They're afraid that these unsuspecting children will be weened to become avid homosexuals and follow that unholy path. There are millions of kids across the country that would give enything to have a stable environment in which to grow up. Instead of affording them a chance by allowing 2 people who actually "WANT" a kid and are prepared emotionally and financially to raise them; they'd rather leave them in mismanaged foster homes where they are often beaten, raped or as we have seen many times here in Florida they go missing altogether.  Gays and lesbians just want to have a family similar to the ones they grew up in. Have that sense of accomplishment thier parents, MY parents, had when they provide for a child and see them grow to become successful men and women regardless of sexual orientation or creed. I, like many of the GLBT community, was raised by 2 heterosexual parents others in single family homes.  At 12 I told my Mom I wanted to dance ballet. She said "You can't dance ballet. You're not gay." yeeeeah, well. I laugh about it now cuz I wanted to be an architect a month later and even though what I wanted to be changed often -her comment stuck with me to this day. Try as they might to discourage me from "gay" activities; I did not "turn" hetero. Constant bombarding at home, in society and on TV & the big screen didn't help make me "normal" I know many single gays and lesbians raising their kids without hiding who they are. I can attest that if anything these kids have a heightened sense of who they are and who others are intheir immediate surroundings. They don't judge or hate or tease others who are different because they are raises in homes that by their very existance teach tolerance and acceptance. Judge not lest ye be judged. Stop the hatred and the bigotry and give these kids a fighting chance at a better future.

    Posted by Pedro Camejo on 11/19/2008 @ 10:43AM PT

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Michael is the Communications Director for the Human Rights Program at Harvard Law School, and previously was Communications Director for Pax Christi USA, a progressive Catholic human rights organization.

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