Female Country Music Stars Love Them Some Gay Marriage

Dolly PartonSo Dolly Parton, Reba McEntire, and Martina McBride walk into bar, and the bartender says, "Hey ladies, what'll it be today?" And the trio bounces back, "How about full equality for gays and lesbians?"

*crickets*

OK, so it doesn't make the best punchline. But it is true that several country music superstars are making bold steps to speak up for LGBT equality. The latest is Dolly Parton, who not only said she's cool with gay marriage last week, but also dropped a bit of a sucker punch in the direction of Pastor Joel Osteen, who himself went on national television a few weeks back and said that homosexuality "wasn't God's best." Parton said that if Pastor Osteen were genuinely religious, he wouldn't be judging LGBT folks.

Huh, turns out that God's best may be a bunch of country music divas.

Parton joins megastar Reba McEntire in being two of the biggest country music celebrities to publicly say they support marriage equality. McEntire gave an interview to Out Magazine earlier this year where she acknowledged that she had lots of gay friends, and could understand why they would want the same marriage rights as straight people.

"Keep an open mind.  That would be my voice. I have gay friends. I have a lot of straight friends. I don't judge them. I take them for what they are. They're my friends, and I can't defend my feelings for them, other than I like 'em," said McEntire.  "I have gay friends who have partners, and I see where they would want to get married. I understand why. So, I can't judge that."

Even Martina McBride has gotten in on some LGBT love, dishing that she's raising her kids to be tolerant, and that includes tolerance of sexual orientation. "I have three daughters, and that's what I teach them. I think we should all be tolerant of each other and embrace each others' strengths and differences and uniqueness and beauty," McBride told Out Magazine.

That makes three of the biggest country music superstars who haven't shied away from standing up for one of the biggest civil rights issues of our day -- LGBT equality. As Parton herself said, "Just love everybody for who they are."

Yup, those seven words certainly sound a lot more like God's best than the comments Pastor Osteen has now become famous for.

(Photo courtesy of the U.S. National Park Service)

Vcygcorilljgafh-30x30-cropped Michael Jones

Michael Jones is a Change.org Editor.

He is the former Communications Director for the Human Rights Program at Harvard Law School, as well as the former Director of Communications for Pax Christi USA, a national Catholic peace and justice organization. Mike is a graduate of Syracuse University's S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications and he is also a proud sketch comedy writer.

Comments (6)

  • Fr. Marty Kurylowicz
    Nov 17, 2009 @ 09:33AM PT
    Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

    Michael, 

    We need to hear this kind of news from LGBT allies. Boy, it sure warms the heart and inspires hope. The world is made of some truly wonderful people.  God love them. Thanks for posting this piece, Marty 

  • Gary Allmon
    Nov 17, 2009 @ 03:05PM PT
    Gary Allmon

    Wonderful and not surprising thoughts from three truly regal divas who are caring people all.  However, I won't be holding my breath waiting for the first country music king to openly support marriage equality for gays and lesbians.

  • Edwin Bonilla
    Nov 17, 2009 @ 04:08PM PT
    Edwin Bonilla

    It's good that Dolly Parton supports the very important right of same-sex marriage. With her making three among country music stars, the importance of same-sex marriage is making inroads among a music genre which is well known for conservative listeners. It's also good that Dolly Parton mentioned Joel Osteen for his intolerance. If only Senator Mark Warner from Virginia supported same-sex marriage; he doesn't.

  • Nov 17, 2009 @ 06:15PM PT
    Peter S. T.

     

    Michael, has Reba ever had a choice to be married. Did she have to fight for it, if she did she should not have because it was her given right? I didn't understand what she said exactly! Just having the choice is enough or is not?

    And Tina McBride she teaches tolerance to her three daughters are we taste that needs to be acquired?  Think about this the world is basically male and female and not everybody going to look like Shakira and Brando! Although I do appreciate their support in this fight or debate?

     

  • tracy taylor
    Nov 17, 2009 @ 06:33PM PT
    tracy taylor

    Being gay is not a choice..I have been attracted to women since I was 7 years old when I became very attracted to my 2nd grade female teacher..and Im a female. When and why people become gay is not anything they can control so maybe I should be hateful towards straight people because they have a preference towards the opposite sex. If people want to use the bible as thier back up.. then all I can say is shame on you satan for confusing us!

    • Nov 17, 2009 @ 06:44PM PT
      Peter S. T.

      L0L

    • Nov 17, 2009 @ 06:52PM PT
      Peter S. T.

      Not a choice to being Gay but a choice to being married it is her birth right if chose to? Why should Gay people have to fight for this right?

    • Fred McKay
      Nov 27, 2009 @ 04:14PM PT
      Fred McKay

      When people use Leviticus 18:22 as an excuse for anti-gay hatred because god says it is an abomination I tell them to look at Leviticus 11:10 which says that shellfish is an abomination. If the same book of the same bible uses the same word to describe two activities how can one be a sin worthy of descrimination and the other be OK?

    • Nov 27, 2009 @ 04:47PM PT
      Peter S. T.

       

      Fred, have you ever seen “A Payer for Bobby?"  The Bible was written for the time! It is just a legitimate excuse for others to hate as they believe they were words of God!  No one has said anything on how many times the bible was interpreted, written, and chapter torn-out of the book, literally missing or well hidden since the Mid-evil ages, The Spanish Empire made sure of that! It was believed a child was an abomination at the time; in fact everything was an abomination including women who walked with shame?

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  • Reverend Boony
    Nov 18, 2009 @ 01:44AM PT
    Reverend Boony

    Im glad that miss parton and the other ladies are doing whats right and I agree with friar kurylowicz...

    Thank you mr. jones.

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